I remember fondly my first motorbike experience – a family friend put it in gear for me and told me how to release the clutch and turn the accelerator. I immediately raced off and bailed in a ditch. No problem got on again and off I went.
From then though it was up to me. I knew what to do – I just had to do it.
But you know what? I tried for weeks and weeks and weeks to get the knack of it, I couldn’t for the sake of me take off, I would always stall. It frustrated me that I couldn’t get it right. Finally I got the knack of it and managed to coerce it into action – after what must have been hundreds of attempts.
A few months later, I found the problem, guess what it was? I was in the wrong gear, 1 up from neutral was 2nd gear, not first. First was 1 down. That’ s why it would always die on me. I was in the WRONG gear!
Lesson learnt – you can get going in the wrong gear – but it’s bloody hard.
For whatever goal you are seeking, have you checked the gear you are in? If you just swap gears, you can probably get there much much faster (and not make it so hard on yourself).
If you’re not sure what gear you should be in, ask those that have fulfilled the goal already, often they can get you into the right gear within seconds.