Three skills we can all work on
Writing.
Listening.
Communicating.
Do you do a Microsoft and ask what customers want? Or do you do an Apple and tell them what they want?
These are two sides of the equation that people often flip between or have difficulty deciding on what’s right.
The thing you need to take into account is the market state.
What is the state of the market?
If you’re the big player you want to listen to your customers, keep them happy, you have a lot to cater for.
If you’re the small guy you can’t compete on that basis, you need to figure out tangents which you can take the customer that help make you big.
And they are as follows:
ps
Track, measure, slice/dice data every which way. Analyse, interpret, make changes. Measure again. Learn to adapt from what your users tell you through their actions. the answers are already there you just need to find them.
The reality is, no matter your beliefs, chances are you can find and connect with other people who share the same views.
That’s great, now you can have a club.
A place for all the extremists to hang out. Being at the edge is good. However when you realise that you can always find someone to reinforce existing beliefs… not so good.
You’d be better off chatting to other crazies. Those that will debate and push back. For they will ground you, keep you in check but also challenge. Rather than reinforce.
Just a thought.
And celebrating! Esther and I are officially engaged!!
I proposed on the beaches of Waikiki in Hawaii last week and we made the announcement to our families last night (just got home yesterday). So a bit of celebrations going on over here!
(Will organise a photo and upload it to my Facebook page)
Have lots of stories to tell and share from my trip, and a tonne of new writing to release so stay tuned.
-Ben
Off on an adventure! An adventure indeed. Thanks to Grabaseat and some quick draw purchasing I’m off to Hawaii for 8 days.

As such the blog will be taking a break. Bare with me. Feel free to read any of the archives below. Did you know there are now over 450 posts on the blog?
I could autopost new blog posts whilst I’m away but hey that’s no fun, oh also I set up bwagy.tv with all my videos from radiowammo, feel free to tune in (I have lots more video content coming this year)
Till next week, chow!
Ben
Thanks to Kubina for the photo.
There are three main models (when looking at the founders point of view):
Bonus Option
You are so remarkable you create a monopoly. This adds extra profit in any option (probably mostly in the first option).
Just a few different thoughts/models on how to frame it in your mind.
#47: Listen (and really listen)
Listen to your clients, be proactive, give them a call, find out their issues, problems, even if it’s not related to you. This is where your networking can pay off you may know someone that could help them, or a blog post you have read that could.
#48: Don’t pretend
Be yourself, let your business reflect that, you are attractive, maybe not to everyone, but to a big enough group to build a business off.
And that’s it! Well from me anyway.
I wrote this about a year ago one night, when I thought what would I tell someone starting where I started, I hope it’s been of value to you. If you’d like to read the full thread go here.
Starting out is always tough, it’s not hard though (as millions of other people have gone through exactly the same process) so most of all be prepared to listen, swallow your pride and learn. I’d rather you became a stellar success than quitting as you weren’t prepared to adapt.
I may turn this into an ebook or short book at some stage (who knows) but if you’ve anything to add or wanted to ask me a question about any of it just send me an email to [email protected] – let me know how I can help.
Interesting announcement made late last week week, McDonalds (only in New Zealand as far as I know) has added Weight Watchers approved food items to the menu.
Copy/Paste from the NZHerald:
“It seems like an unlikely alliance, but Weight Watchers has backed three items on McDonald’s menu.
From today, New Zealand McDonald’s branches are offering three meals that each add up to 6.5 Weight Watchers’ points.
The meals, the Filet-O-Fish, the Chicken McNuggets and the Sweet Chilli Seared Chicken Wrap, are the same meals McDonald’s customers are used to. But 9000 staff in 150 restaurants around the country have had training to make the meals more consistently, with the same amount of sauce each time, so they fall within the points system.
The system allows those on the Weight Watchers’ programme between 18 and 40 points each day, which they must stay within to obtain and retain their goal weight.
The meals are served with salads and water or diet soft drinks.”
I know why McDonalds did this, easy:
But mostly provide an excuse for people to go into McDonalds (hey I’m getting the healthy option), really though once people are in there they will grab their regular meal. McDonalds knows that. That’s why they run new specials, cheap burgers because they know the biggest challenge is getting people to McDonalds – once there they can sell to them.
If you jump over to Weight Watchers Worldwide the first item on their approach is “learn to handle hunger and beat temptation” – dare I say if you are on Weight Watchers giving McDonalds the tick is totally in no way coherent with your mission. Weight Watchers endorsing McDonalds…fail.
I don’t really need to explain this any more do I?
McDonalds: 1 Weight Watchers: -1,000,000
Give us your thoughts in the comments below…
Great… but what can you learn from that?
Maybe next step is to try stretch or break it.
That’s where the real learning is.
“The temptation to quit will be greatest just before you are about to succeed” ~Chinese Proverb
Risk Homeostasis is a theory that humans have a certain level of acceptable risk and we will seek to keep that in equilibrium.
If we take high risk in one part of our life we will seek to minimise it in another part.
For example, in a Munich Case Study two groups of taxis were monitored for accidents. One group had ABS brakes installed, the others stayed with the regular breaks. You would think then that the ABS guys had less accidents right?
Wrong. What they found was the accident rate was about the same, the group with ABS having gained better braking would take other risks (ie braking late).
Have a read over at WikiPedia. Watch my video below on RadioWammo discussing it:
httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nqMQ7yAVNSg
It has interesting implications for all change, innovation and risk when you think about it.
Thanks to Malcolm Gladwell for the inspiration in his latest book What the Dog Saw.
I have a bit of a theory around running
The first run is completely all about what you think you can do. It doesn’t matter how you fit you are – it’s more about how far you go till your brain says hey buddy it’s time to stop.
The second run (and this can be the very next day) you can magically run up to 1/3 even further.
It’s not that you got more fit overnight – it’s that you realise what you can do and are able to push through it.
Each run for the first week or so is just about stretching ‘what you can do’.
Then you hit your actual limit. You run at that limit for a few runs. Take a break. Come back and own it.
Apply this to most things. Your performance undoubtedly is what you think you can do rather than what you’re actually capable of.
Never, ever underestimate your potential.
Please read about the Crazies, they will surely change your perspective (and grow yourself) very rapidly.
Start a blog – even if you don’t share it (although you are missing out) it’ll improve everything you do. Significantly.
What’s happening in the Long Term? The bigger picture? Are your moves of the chess pieces this month helping improve the playing field for your next move?
Rethink your networking ability.
Have you thought about your sales copy? Have you brought it back to the basics? Copy 101.
Thinking about going out on your own? Or plan to one day. Read my Going out on your own: Pursuing the passion blog post series (hey it’s been going 8 months now) there are some real gems there.
Do not quash the clever guy.
Finally (and most importantly) turn up. And keep turning up.
If you want to get from A to B and can’t find a path.
Create one.